Cant get transocding to work in new lxc

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reinstalled and made a new lcx installation from https://community-scripts.github.io/Prox...d=jellyfin

GPU passthrough works..

However, if i install 

nvidia-utils-535

i get that jellyfin/ffmpeg

 Cannot load libnvidia-encode.so.1

.

So when i install 

apt install libnvidia-encode-535-server

but then with playback i get 

AVHWDeviceContext @ 0x60a689417e80] cu->cuInit(0) failed -> CUDA_ERROR_COMPAT_NOT_SUPPORTED_ON_DEVICE: forward compatibility was attempted on non supported HW
Device creation failed: -542398533.
Failed to set value 'cuda=cu:0' for option 'init_hw_device': Generic error in an external library
Error parsing global options: Generic error in an external library

if i then install back nvidia-utils-535 i get:

[av1_nvenc @ 0x63657994a300] Cannot load libnvidia-encode.so.1
[av1_nvenc @ 0x63657994a300] The minimum required Nvidia driver for nvenc is 520.56.06 or newer
[vost#0:0/av1_nvenc @ 0x636579949e80] Error while opening encoder - maybe incorrect parameters such as bit_rate, rate, width or height.
[fc#0 @ 0x63657984d600] Error sending frames to consumers: Operation not permitted
[fc#0 @ 0x63657984d600] Task finished with error code: -1 (Operation not permitted)
[fc#0 @ 0x63657984d600] Terminating thread with return code -1 (Operation not permitted)
[vost#0:0/av1_nvenc @ 0x636579949e80] Could not open encoder before EOF
[vost#0:0/av1_nvenc @ 0x636579949e80] Task finished with error code: -22 (Invalid argument)
[vost#0:0/av1_nvenc @ 0x636579949e80] Terminating thread with return code -22 (Invalid argument)
[out#0/hls @ 0x636579990540] Nothing was written into output file, because at least one of its streams received no packets.
frame=    0 fps=0.0 q=0.0 Lsize=      0KiB time=N/A bitrate=N/A speed=N/A   
Conversion failed!

What am i supposed to do to get both nvidia-smi to work AND transcoding the stuff, right now i just toggle between packages because installing one, removes the other and just tosses around a new error which searching the web doesnt help.

proxmox lxc, not docker.
JF 10.10.6
LXC: 

root@jellyfin:~# uname -a

Linux jellyfin 6.8.12-8-pve #1 SMP PREEMPT_DYNAMIC PMX 6.8.12-8 (2025-01-24T12:32Z) x86_64 x86_64 x86_64 GNU/Linux