Recommended HDR -> SDR tone mapping settings?

[LeviSnoot]

For the sake of completeness I'll attach a sample below. Doing this was a good idea because the results of the tone mapping settings I have are a lot worse than I initially thought... Yikes.

Adobe:



Jellyfin Native Tone Mapping:



MPV/Jellyfin Media Player:



Jellyfin VPP Tone Mapping:



I think what I'd like is somewhere between the first and second image. Adobe has a good image in general, but is maybe slightly oversaturated/bright (there's a lot of color noise in the grain for example), and it looks like the highlights are clipping a bit. The native tone mapping settings look pretty nice to me, although I feel they're still a bit flat.